It’s a Sunday night and I’m watching the third episode of HBO’s Girls. The main character, Hannah Horvath, plays a corky, intelligent young unemployed writer in New York City. Interestingly enough, in this episode, Hannah gets a call from her gynecologist informing her that she has HPV (Human Papilloma Virus). Faced with this unexpected news (considering her doctor visit was to rule out HIV), Hannah confronts her cute jerk of a sex partner and arbitrarily accuses him of giving it to her.
Up to this point, you have read a lot from me and other bloggers about the do’s and don’ts of practicing safe sex and all usually in the context of straight men and women and/or men loving men. What about safe sex for “lady loving ladies?” While it is accurate to say that lesbians are an extremely low risk group for contracting or transmitting HIV and STIs (female to female), it doesn’t preclude them from the fact that they could still become infected. Read the rest of this entry
Written by Daniel Casiilas
I have worked in the HIV/STD field for nearly 13 years and I have heard it all when it comes to the excuses people will use to wiggle out of not using a latex barrier. Men and women, young and old, gay, straight, bisexual, and tri-sexual all have made up excuses for not using a protection. I have no doubt that, at some point in your sexual life, you may find yourself face-to-face with some of these excuses and/or have heard someone talk about their experience. Check out this short list:
I totally get the message, but again (as I point out in my most recent post) women can’t use condoms because they don’t have penises. Women can talk to their male sex partners about using condoms or consider alternative methods to engaging in sex that is safe and still exciting, spontaneous, and satisfying (for both of you). The point is HIV is still a big deal. Be sexual. Be kinky. Be safe.